Anger, Ours and Theirs

25 Jul
…the solution requires us to acknowledge a split in our ability to respond to justice: the more perfectly one attends to the gravity of the wrongs done, the less sensitive one becomes to the gravity of the wrongs one is poised to commit in response.
Sometimes other people help us exactly by not feeling what we feel, exactly by remaining resolutely who they are.

https://thepointmag.com/examined-life/anger-management-agnes-callard/